Love for Sex or Sex for Love??

Nepe & Loote Thanks for your postings and arguments.

Nepe & Loote Thanks for your postings and arguments.

Jiban, Thank you. I suppose that is a signal that we have had sufficient discussion. I hope it was a helpful one to your original question and for general interest. I will just make a quick a thankyou note and comment on Nails’s last note on additional theories of love and also a pointer to one aspect of love we have not particularly talked about. The dynamics of love. Until now we have treated love pretty much statically, as if there is a fixed equation for every pair. The fact is that each person can be manipulated by circumstances and therefore the likelihood of a person to love (or fall in love) another person can also be a function of the circumstance. Saying right thing at a right time makes all the difference in the pursuit of love. There are also circumstances when a person is more competent/vulnerable to love than he/she is in a normal time. Finally, thank you, Nails, for adding very interesting and important information to this discussion. I would like to summarize Hatfield’s and other theories for myself and Sajha readers here. A. Zick Rubin (Liking vs loving) · Liking and loving can be distinguished and measured · love = attachment + caring + intimacy B. Elaine Hatfield (Compassionate vs. Passionate Love) · Compassionate love = mutual respect, attachment, affection, and trust · Passionate love = intense emotions, sexual attraction, anxiety, and affection · Ideally, passionate love ---> compassionate love · Rarely, passionate love + compassionate love C. John Lee Color wheel model (6 Styles of Loving) Three primary styles: 1. Eros – Loving an ideal person 2. Ludos – Love as a game 3. Storge – Love as friendship Three secondary styles: 1. Mania (Eros + Ludos) – Obsessive love 2. Pragma (Ludos + Storge) – Realistic and practical love 3. Agape (Eros + Storge) – Selfless love For more: Theories of Love http://psychology.about.com/od... Happy weekend and fulfilling love life to all ! Nepe

Thanks Nepe.

love is platform for sex, first show love then make love" pasyo maayaa basyo""

sex is crazy

metalgal, r ya hot? or ya are feelin' extraordinarily horny? could'u stop that 'love sex thread'? come2me i'll show ya love4sex=sex4love.

LOVE is a Name, SEX is a GAME, Just forget the Name and Play the Game !!

swap you are funny

ZeePa what in the world makes you think shes going to come to YOU? hehe Let the girl have her opinion you narrow minded cricket.

So, are we ready to wrap up this thread? or just want to go ahead??