Amiran Jee,

Thank you for your comments. I don't see any problems posting personal issue in the public place and seeking for advise and suggestions. I personally think you need to share your personal problems/feelings and get opinions from the public and then do the best judgement. If I was able to handle this problem on my own, I wouldn't have post this message on Sajha. And I think you understand that very well.

For those , who don't have dare to come forward with their marital problems  in public, they will just hide within themselves with stress and its not good for your health. People might fake saying their marriage is perfect and they are the best couple but they know inside what they are going through and how unhappy they are.

I will tell you this. People can only tolerate to some extent and everything has its limit. When the limit is crossed, I won't have any choices but to make some tough decisions. And at that time, you might have to forget your promises and vows that you did infront of your friends and families and move on with your life.

Thanks again~