Posted by: lootekukur November 10, 2008
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Hey Jiban!
Why don't you go talk with your girl in person instead of speculating and making second guesses from distance? It's darn simple to complicate things by doubts and misgivings! If I were you, I would confront her and if found guilty, spank her until her "cheeks" are reddened for real :P
However, I would also do some introspection afterwards. Did I live upto her expectations?
1) Did I give my "all" that I promised I would give her when I first proposed her?
2) Did I spend enough quality time with her? Did I fulfill all her expectations? Meaning, did I gift her a bouquet of red roses on Valentine's day? And on all other 364 non-valentine's days?
3) Did I call her every morning at 2:16:33 AM and told her first up: "I am soo into you my love and no one on the face of earth could love you more than I do, my princess!" Did I repeat the same stuff over and over again during all other 254 times I called her every day? Were I serious when I said that or were I just farting/yawning? Is she my partner for real of just a comic relief?
4) Did I see the perfect geometry of her silhouette when I envisioned her in my dreams (day and night) or did I genuinely prayed for her well-being as well at most of the times her thoughts crossed my mind?
All these tiny simple things matter, my friend? Some girls have HUGE expectations from their boys. Just ask yourself: Were you able to live up to even 3 quarters of her expectations? If NO, you have no right to doubt on her either :P
Last but not the least, there's nothing a romantic rendezvous over a candle-light dinner cannot do! Just have her one of these days and speak your heart and mind. Don't keep it within yourself. It will help. Coming to sajha and posing your problem don't always help. Oh well, unless there are serious repliers like LooTe da Hunk :P
Why don't you go talk with your girl in person instead of speculating and making second guesses from distance? It's darn simple to complicate things by doubts and misgivings! If I were you, I would confront her and if found guilty, spank her until her "cheeks" are reddened for real :P
However, I would also do some introspection afterwards. Did I live upto her expectations?
1) Did I give my "all" that I promised I would give her when I first proposed her?
2) Did I spend enough quality time with her? Did I fulfill all her expectations? Meaning, did I gift her a bouquet of red roses on Valentine's day? And on all other 364 non-valentine's days?
3) Did I call her every morning at 2:16:33 AM and told her first up: "I am soo into you my love and no one on the face of earth could love you more than I do, my princess!" Did I repeat the same stuff over and over again during all other 254 times I called her every day? Were I serious when I said that or were I just farting/yawning? Is she my partner for real of just a comic relief?
4) Did I see the perfect geometry of her silhouette when I envisioned her in my dreams (day and night) or did I genuinely prayed for her well-being as well at most of the times her thoughts crossed my mind?
All these tiny simple things matter, my friend? Some girls have HUGE expectations from their boys. Just ask yourself: Were you able to live up to even 3 quarters of her expectations? If NO, you have no right to doubt on her either :P
Last but not the least, there's nothing a romantic rendezvous over a candle-light dinner cannot do! Just have her one of these days and speak your heart and mind. Don't keep it within yourself. It will help. Coming to sajha and posing your problem don't always help. Oh well, unless there are serious repliers like LooTe da Hunk :P