Jiban bro,

I had a similar experience like yours. I was getting similar feedback ( I am too busy) to the point where we would talk once a week or less. Adding to the misery was that my buddies were fooling with chicks left, right and cetner and I was so miserable love struck idiot. I confronted her and we broke up eventually. I really felt bad for longest time and still do but when the signals are there you gotta move on. You dont want to wait for the bus that never comes.

So, this is your time, move on. Go around and ask anyone out that you think you will have fun with. Make some mistakes cuz thats the best way to learn. Thats what I did.Tracking and wishing for things doesnt change anything..