thanks saajan and girly gurl and everyone who gave their advice to me.. i really appreciate and i will try to let him go as i mentioned earlier. but its jus hard.  when u (saajan) said " if he/she is not willing to give you all those meanings of relationship then its best to move on coz its better to be hurt for a while than being hurt for the rest of your life..." that is so true but im so scared to take that 1st step..... i wonder what people will think and what will i do without him in my life.. im really depressed and i really need some support and i thank u all for atleast writin all the things which i some way makes me feel better..