Hi Chor, I first started the list with few good writers who hadn't been seen for quite a while. I have added more names here which have been suggested.

I enjoyed Lute's comparision of this with ex gfs. But we can definitely look at it in terms of another more practical comparision.

Let's say you were single and had a lot of friends coming to your apartment. Some of them very talented, some great singers, some musicians, some just great to hang out with and chill, some just nice friends. Lets say in time due to natural progression of things such as marriage or fatherhood, you began to lose contact with your friends and at some point there was just no contact. Let's say things started to get a little stable as far as your family life and you wanted to be back in touch with the old friends. Perhaps an invitation to come for dinner. Perhaps a catch up call once in few weeks. I don't see anything wrong with that.

It's perfectly fine and good to say let bygones be bygones if you had parted in sour notes. There are no sour bygones here, and there's nothing wrong with sending people you know a greeting card or a Thanksgiving card once in a while.

With that said, I hope you all can help invite some of our old friends back by sending them a nudge through the sajha subscriptions.