Mr. Lovekumar Lama,

As you name suggested it sounds to me that you won't afraid of falling love again. Reality, you shouldn't be either. Well, Going through all the comments I understand that they are somehow right and true too, but at the moment these sort of some sympathy or comments won't help to heal your broken hearts. 

I don't have much time to invest and give you more details or even you won't take them seriously and  may NOT read all my sentences too. Let me give you some hints .. if you are happy to with my 2 cents worth come back to me for more .... !

First of all ... What are the causes of damagining your relationships ? Who to blame for this ? Where you went wrong ? Is it cause of you ? or What actually made you guys come to spilt here ?

There could be various reasons hidden behind your situations . Let's say she dumped you ! or She is not satisfied with you or she thought she would have better life with someone else than with  you !

Right, Let's come to the truth ! What ever reasons she left you or you broked up with her ! Don't blame her or don't blame else ! Do you know whom to BLAME? That's you ! Yes 'YOU'. It sounds harsh to you but matter of fact ... She thought you seem no worth spedning her life with you and after 4/5 years time of her life she thougth that's it !

Now, If you start keeping Depression pills and depressed you know it's result?  You seem like a life less body . You might be thinking you life is worth less .. ! Exactly, You started taking Pills the next she left .. how useless you are .. ? How powerless you .. if you keep on like that what you are doing that all prove her that her decisions was absolutely right to leave you for good !

Here are some tips what you gotta do ... !

Now right now .. Go to bathroom , get freshed and look up at the mirror and say yourslef ' IT'S OVER '!

Yes, it's over now . Destroy or packed all her things you have got even picutres ! Gifts , cloths etc what ever that reminds you of her ! Tidy your apartment .. listen nice musics, get close to friends that have been disconnected years , don't drink .. ! Treat yourself buying new stuff , new dress ..!Learn somehting new skills ! May learn swiming or else .. ! You will see change yourself .. Start gym and be in Shape in 3/4 itmes you will be surpirsed having someone right person waiting for you life again ... !

Instead , If you put your head in sand and won't like to get up where you are now, in  5 years time , she will have 2/3 children , with a nice husband , having a great life .. instead you would be a shaggy worth less guy, frustrated , depressed and drunker. .. Think where you want to be in next  years .. do you still want to be where you are now or want to change your life where you are now ...!

Right , get over it .. ! It's not easy as said .. but it's possible ! You are not one a single perosn in this planet that get relations broken into pieces! Learn the lessons from your past relations and don't make same mistakes with your future partner ..!

Who knows you deserve better than her ..... !

Good luck , cheer up ! If you think that's right .. trerat only a pint of beer yourself not more ..!

there you go !

uncle tom

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