Jet,

I think out of three examples that you gave "about Pakistanis", only two concerned Pakistanis. Not one concerned a Pakistani boy dating a Nepali girl, so I don't think are much relevant here. The first example is only about Nepalis. Now, Nepal is big, with millions Nepali men and millions Nepali women, and I am sure we can find some outlier example where a Nepali sleeps with another Nepali girl, and even kills her. But it is far fetching for me to believe that Nepali will treat a girl abandoned by another Nepali boy as a pariah, at least just because of that reason. Quite frankly, If a girl is not beautiful, doesn't have good education and is not from a rich family, then if she has a publicly wellknown relationship with a Nepali boy, who dumps her, she will have a hard time finding another boy. But I had a few minor discreetly held affairs, and all girls ended up with good looking, wealthy boys, and I am particularly happy for them. In one particular case, I was surprised to know that my highschool classmate was the person who married her.

But what worries me is how come majority of all Nepali have the same story to tell. A smooth talking pakistani, a gullible Nepali girl who thinks the pakistani is rich and is different from other fanatic, the pakistani telling his friends how he was scoring a Hindu girl, and an eventual breakup or a conversion. Tell me if there is a single Nepali girl whose child is named Nepali after her marriage with the Pakistani. I haven't seen one. But it is easy to find American husband celebrating Dashai or giving the child a Nepali name.

But these are just statistical properties. Perhaps someone is truly different. But girls need to know all these things. And also, Nepali girls are going to benefit from discussions like this.Because they know that most of the Nepali boy do have reservations about girls dating Pakistanis. Lots of them think that Pakistanis actually treat their Hindu girlfriends as trophy, and show that to us.