Posted by: pire October 14, 2008
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Jet,
The reason why anyone who reads your posting gets pissed off is simple: you start out with the assumption that you are oh-so-smart. (For example: for you and your cohorts, these posters are laughingstocks!) I definitely got pissed off, because rather than focusing on what I wrote, you went on to behave like a detective in some Hindi novel, trying to figure out commonalities between two names of anonymous posters. And then you went on to write that Pire is some language somewhere in some country, which had nothing to do with the discussion at hand. And to top your stupidity, you claimed that I would probably not know about the language. Hell, yes, I didn't know that language, but what's that got to do with the postings here. That was such a waste of time, and such a balooney posting that anyone engaged in that kind of conversation should be banned rightaway from any serious discussion forum. Thankfully, sajha is not one of those serious discussion forums.
But I am sure anyone who reads your reply can see that you have a big ego, a I-know-the-history-of-sajha-and-I-will-bring-it-back-its-glory megalomania, and you see almost all posters as some kind of criminals who chased away the good old posters. Noone chased anyone away from here, and if those old guys left, then perhaps they were some pussy bunches who couldn't sustain their effect here. In any case, good for them that they got real job, and are not hanging around!
Going back, I think a lot of Nepali girls don't know how dangerous Pakistan is, or can be for them. If they know all, and are making best judgement for them, good for them. But, frankly, I think most of the Moslems men have some serious problem in the way they view women. If Nepali women think Nepali men have ego problem, and then choose the embrace of Pakistani men, then they are not treating the problem in the right way because hell awaits them in most of the cases. But if those girls were absolutely, madly , crazily in love with the Pakistanis and are willing, if necessary, to share the status of wife with three other women or wear burqa all their life, then goodluck to those girls.
Finally, the two girls I ever knew who dated musalman boys had different reasons. One was old and had hard time finding any husband eventhough she definitely preferred Nepali boys. To top the problem, her Nepali boyfriend left her under unfortunate circumstances. She was inconsolable for a few days, and guess would have gone with anyone. I never blamed her for going to pakistani boy and I always wished she would find someone after the breakup( but because of my own conservative values, I wasn't ready to be that one:)). The other woman was a married Nepali woman. She was here, her husband was back home. She chose perversion over fidelity with her husband. I guess it was natural because of biological needs. The last time I heard from her about the Pakistani, she was saying that the Paki was claiming that he had a nice house in Pakistan and didn't really need to work in the USA, but he came here for fun. He was working in a motel as a clerk. I found it hard to believe his bragging, but I ddn't say anything. It seems like similar story is being told everywhere by Pakistani boys about their financial status back home.
The reason why anyone who reads your posting gets pissed off is simple: you start out with the assumption that you are oh-so-smart. (For example: for you and your cohorts, these posters are laughingstocks!) I definitely got pissed off, because rather than focusing on what I wrote, you went on to behave like a detective in some Hindi novel, trying to figure out commonalities between two names of anonymous posters. And then you went on to write that Pire is some language somewhere in some country, which had nothing to do with the discussion at hand. And to top your stupidity, you claimed that I would probably not know about the language. Hell, yes, I didn't know that language, but what's that got to do with the postings here. That was such a waste of time, and such a balooney posting that anyone engaged in that kind of conversation should be banned rightaway from any serious discussion forum. Thankfully, sajha is not one of those serious discussion forums.
But I am sure anyone who reads your reply can see that you have a big ego, a I-know-the-history-of-sajha-and-I-will-bring-it-back-its-glory megalomania, and you see almost all posters as some kind of criminals who chased away the good old posters. Noone chased anyone away from here, and if those old guys left, then perhaps they were some pussy bunches who couldn't sustain their effect here. In any case, good for them that they got real job, and are not hanging around!
Going back, I think a lot of Nepali girls don't know how dangerous Pakistan is, or can be for them. If they know all, and are making best judgement for them, good for them. But, frankly, I think most of the Moslems men have some serious problem in the way they view women. If Nepali women think Nepali men have ego problem, and then choose the embrace of Pakistani men, then they are not treating the problem in the right way because hell awaits them in most of the cases. But if those girls were absolutely, madly , crazily in love with the Pakistanis and are willing, if necessary, to share the status of wife with three other women or wear burqa all their life, then goodluck to those girls.
Finally, the two girls I ever knew who dated musalman boys had different reasons. One was old and had hard time finding any husband eventhough she definitely preferred Nepali boys. To top the problem, her Nepali boyfriend left her under unfortunate circumstances. She was inconsolable for a few days, and guess would have gone with anyone. I never blamed her for going to pakistani boy and I always wished she would find someone after the breakup( but because of my own conservative values, I wasn't ready to be that one:)). The other woman was a married Nepali woman. She was here, her husband was back home. She chose perversion over fidelity with her husband. I guess it was natural because of biological needs. The last time I heard from her about the Pakistani, she was saying that the Paki was claiming that he had a nice house in Pakistan and didn't really need to work in the USA, but he came here for fun. He was working in a motel as a clerk. I found it hard to believe his bragging, but I ddn't say anything. It seems like similar story is being told everywhere by Pakistani boys about their financial status back home.