As far as I am concerned, I DO NOT have  any problems Nepali girls dating or marrying anyone be it is paki or gore as long as they do it in dignified way. I am relatively new in US, just been a year, but within a year been in the parties, get togethers and so on..and in my limited experience, most of the nepali girls that I came across ( may not be all the girls ) just love to present themselves as an "se...ual object" than any thing else. Once they have couple of shots or glass of margarita, boyyyy..who in the earth will be able to control in that case...Sorry sad but true! I did not experience the same in the case of khaire, even though they are born and brought up in such culutre.  SO, just putting together liberal thoughts to sound like a "gentleman" does not work out.

Secondly,  you would definately feel bad when you see indian/paki guy is having fun with a girl from your country! This is not because we guys are jealous but more than that we are caring and  has potential to forsee the consequences like chitwanethito said "I knew the girl(Nepali). And she told me that she was deeply in love with the paki boy. I didn't say anything to her, but I felt for her after a few months when their relationship was nowhere."

About the identity and our culture, it does not only apply to girls only, guys are also no different.

What i said here is the fact -no plus no minus! accept it or deny it!

anygirls who been thorough such case I heartly welcome to confess here so that many lives can be saved!

my suggestion for the girls- girls set your limit, carry yourself in a dignified way ,guys will love and respect you for being like that, if you do that you have a great chance of getting good man if not you might end up your life with some kind of jerk who does not give a shit about the girls and just love to get l...aid. Choice is yours!

happy dashain!