Cool,what u say indicates what u think and what  i think is u have nothing that does thinking.As i think by your saying that u think ahead of time is u think real that is thought by other as nothing so go on thinking until u think u are right till we think u will change your way of thinking and start thinking as we think.So all this is an outcome of wrong thinking that is because of wrong hypothesis that assumes everything from negative side.There is no compulsion to anyone neither anyone forces to follow any ritual that is hard enough and dictated by hinduism.My understanding about hinduism is it is the best yup one and only one the best religion in the world which accepts existence of other religion as well and based on scientific explanations as well.I admit there are some traditional customs which are odd but for u ppl to know it is not dictated by hinduism but developed by the people following it and integrated it with religion for their sake.It needs a long discussion and understanding capability that i hope u have and hope knows well.

"suteko lai uthauna sakincha tara bahana gareko lai sakinna",you guys who r against TEEJ are barking for no reason.

We love our customs it is free for them not to follow who find it hard ,but who follow it desrves respect and any ignorant cowboy donot bear right to defame it!! Get it!!