Posted by: lootekukur July 31, 2008
Distinguishing gays/lesbians
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gunyucholi,
quite an info there in your post. so are you gunyucholi in torso and jeans underneath (if there is anything underneath that is)? hahahahaha...
jokes aside, i agree with you on that these days gay-ism is over-hyped to some extent. also, many of them gays who feared social (s)reclusion in the past have now gathered enough courage to come out of their closets which, to me, is heartening.

there is no denying that gays are normal, however, straights tend to have either unnecessary apprehension or  unfair disdain (not that any disdain is fair) towards gays-in-general. a part of the reason, IMO, is their inherent fear (conscious/sub-conscious) of sexual abuse (i don't know if eunuchs/cross-dressers among the generic gays, with their appearance/actions, are more responsible for such abuses). hence when i say "live and let live", IMHO, it applies both ways meaning as much as there is a need of the recognition of gay rights, the rights of straights should also be respected coherently in a just society that doesn't have any kinds of gender bias.

and, for finding out who is gay and who's not... you can always look out for the conventional gay signs. it's not difficult to tell either after few minutes of observation i suppose.

there was/is this friend(male) of mine whose orientation i always doubted but he would always try to refute. whenever i (or anyone) pat on his back (as in greeting him or something), he would shrink and utter "Ouch"..hahahaha... when he seated on a chair, he would put his legs crossed and one on top of the other like them ladies wearing a tight mini skirt would hahahahaha....that was soooo funny. on top of that his voice hahahaha... i still remember and cannot hold my laughter...

then there was this another friend of mine who used to get 'excited' by seeing a male genitalia (in pictures) hahaha..i am sure he must have some gay streak in him.

ctal,
hahahaha...i thanked god for (s)he didn't sit on my lap. (s)he would have, definitely, if i had not shunned her from coming too close to me hahahaha..last thing i imagined was she on top of me and groping hahahahahahaha..ycuk!
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