As I grown up in ktm,  the exact meaning of newari culture that I learned from my Newar friends and neighbors  is nothing but  ARU KO KURA KATNU, ARLAI SANO  DEKHAYERA KURA GARNU, ARUKO RIS GARNU ANI AAFU CHAHI CHIURA AND RAKSHI KHANU.

There for NEWAR ESTA HUDAINA, BHAU DUSTA HUDAINA. Believe it.