Posted by: Amazing July 7, 2008
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nAyNi,
U feel alone n lonely? Thats obvious but there are many ways to kill boredom and stay recharged. Before I give my opinion I should know your hobbies. Well, if u r in new place it can be harder for first initial days but u know what, as time goes by things become less n less tough then finally you will fall in love with strange place n ppl.
Well, if u ask me what I do when I feel alone (Have I ever felt so LOL), I do find many ways to keep myself engrossed :-) Hmm now if I were in your place (Felt alone in new place) here r some tips....
1. Let me ask u, do u love reading? If so, just go n visit new library in your new city, and pick the book thats about this very place. Its always fun to know abt the palce u r staying, find whats famous abt the place, who r the great persons the city has produced, and of course pick any kind of books u want. If u r not a good reader then on prob, get some CD, DVDs or just picture books.....Happy readin :-)
2. Remember library is not just the place to be silent n read, in most of the libraries there is a coffe shop (at least in Europe) so just have coffee and who knows u will meet some bored person like you, remember most boring person go to library heheh (When u r two, u never felt so)
3. Now u know abt city? Explore it...biking or just walking. When u meet locals ask abt the place. they wd be happy to answer you.
4. U r really bored? write your thoughts and read again after few hours or even days....Man u will enjoy it.
5. Listen some wonderful tracks, try to have different taste than yr usual Narayn Gopal or Rafi style (for a change)
6. Try to cook the best food of your life (and call me hehehe) or just decorate your room (if u r not lazy like me).
7. Dont know how sporty u r but I recommned u to Go n visit some health clubs or be member of sports club. Start Gym (thats great, even if u dont feel bored), or go to swim GREAT FOR HEALTH...( Swimming pools r always romantic places, u dont need to visit Nas's Ramjham hahaha)
8. U drink? Its not good idea to drink alone in four walls. Get out of it and visit the most happening bar.And head to some night clubs, pick somebody (if luck strikes) otherwise just make friends.. (if u like).
9. Do not call/mail often to your friends of previous places, by doin so u will be again and again missing those moments and start feeling lonely (again) Find some new friends at work and in school, Get socially connnected. If u have time be a member of Amnesty Internatinal or Red Cross (do some voluntary work).
10. Take a day off and go somewhere nearby places.
11. And there r many other ways..(I will write later) ...but donot spend much time alone on computer
Enjoy your time
U feel alone n lonely? Thats obvious but there are many ways to kill boredom and stay recharged. Before I give my opinion I should know your hobbies. Well, if u r in new place it can be harder for first initial days but u know what, as time goes by things become less n less tough then finally you will fall in love with strange place n ppl.
Well, if u ask me what I do when I feel alone (Have I ever felt so LOL), I do find many ways to keep myself engrossed :-) Hmm now if I were in your place (Felt alone in new place) here r some tips....
1. Let me ask u, do u love reading? If so, just go n visit new library in your new city, and pick the book thats about this very place. Its always fun to know abt the palce u r staying, find whats famous abt the place, who r the great persons the city has produced, and of course pick any kind of books u want. If u r not a good reader then on prob, get some CD, DVDs or just picture books.....Happy readin :-)
2. Remember library is not just the place to be silent n read, in most of the libraries there is a coffe shop (at least in Europe) so just have coffee and who knows u will meet some bored person like you, remember most boring person go to library heheh (When u r two, u never felt so)
3. Now u know abt city? Explore it...biking or just walking. When u meet locals ask abt the place. they wd be happy to answer you.
4. U r really bored? write your thoughts and read again after few hours or even days....Man u will enjoy it.
5. Listen some wonderful tracks, try to have different taste than yr usual Narayn Gopal or Rafi style (for a change)
6. Try to cook the best food of your life (and call me hehehe) or just decorate your room (if u r not lazy like me).
7. Dont know how sporty u r but I recommned u to Go n visit some health clubs or be member of sports club. Start Gym (thats great, even if u dont feel bored), or go to swim GREAT FOR HEALTH...( Swimming pools r always romantic places, u dont need to visit Nas's Ramjham hahaha)
8. U drink? Its not good idea to drink alone in four walls. Get out of it and visit the most happening bar.And head to some night clubs, pick somebody (if luck strikes) otherwise just make friends.. (if u like).
9. Do not call/mail often to your friends of previous places, by doin so u will be again and again missing those moments and start feeling lonely (again) Find some new friends at work and in school, Get socially connnected. If u have time be a member of Amnesty Internatinal or Red Cross (do some voluntary work).
10. Take a day off and go somewhere nearby places.
11. And there r many other ways..(I will write later) ...but donot spend much time alone on computer
Enjoy your time