Posted by: lootekukur June 23, 2008
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saajan bro,
my sincere and heartfelt condolences to you. as someone said, no word or person can heal the wound inflicted upon an individual by the gruesome destiny. so i would be lying if i say i can feel your pain. but yes, i can surely imagine the mental trauma that you must be going through all these years after that tragic mishap.
having said that, i see the other side and probable future extension to this story and find you lucky in that respect. lucky because you got to live (albeit for a brief period) with the true love for your beloved. not everyone is fortunate enough to get that. trust me on this. and the memories of your 'sapana' are still young and will remain with you forever. no one can steal that from you. no one.
so please allow me to ramble a bit more on how i see this.
time is very strong--as much as it is considerate and compassionate, it's cruel and unforgiving. in your case, it stole 'sapana' from you when you had just started your relation with her. with most of the other folks the way it happens is: you meet with a girl. you fall for her because of her hair. or eyes. or nose. or lips. or heart. or 'you-know-what'. i am in the 72nd floor. the view is exotic and the feeling so mesmerizing. wow, great. good job. enough. come to terms with the reality now coz in this mortal world, everything is fleeting including you, yourself. as much as it's easy to fall for a person, it's equally easy or sometimes easier to come out of the illusion
. doesn't take long. days. weeks. few years at the most.
you once liked her hair but now you hate its smell. you fell for her eyes but blinded by her true-self (or yours own for that matter). you adored her lips but somehow managed to slip your tongue into it and now you're muted for good. you liked her curves but failed to decipher the curves in her attitude. so on and so forth.
gone. good days gone. now only the reality. either bear with it and move along with her baggage or take a different path, be a sole traveler and remain happy ever afterwards. hahaha..
so, my friend. it's all good. it's how you look at it, that matters!
i hope you understand my lil untimely wannabe-funny side in what i just said. my best wishes are with you.
my sincere and heartfelt condolences to you. as someone said, no word or person can heal the wound inflicted upon an individual by the gruesome destiny. so i would be lying if i say i can feel your pain. but yes, i can surely imagine the mental trauma that you must be going through all these years after that tragic mishap.
having said that, i see the other side and probable future extension to this story and find you lucky in that respect. lucky because you got to live (albeit for a brief period) with the true love for your beloved. not everyone is fortunate enough to get that. trust me on this. and the memories of your 'sapana' are still young and will remain with you forever. no one can steal that from you. no one.
so please allow me to ramble a bit more on how i see this.
time is very strong--as much as it is considerate and compassionate, it's cruel and unforgiving. in your case, it stole 'sapana' from you when you had just started your relation with her. with most of the other folks the way it happens is: you meet with a girl. you fall for her because of her hair. or eyes. or nose. or lips. or heart. or 'you-know-what'. i am in the 72nd floor. the view is exotic and the feeling so mesmerizing. wow, great. good job. enough. come to terms with the reality now coz in this mortal world, everything is fleeting including you, yourself. as much as it's easy to fall for a person, it's equally easy or sometimes easier to come out of the illusion
. doesn't take long. days. weeks. few years at the most. you once liked her hair but now you hate its smell. you fell for her eyes but blinded by her true-self (or yours own for that matter). you adored her lips but somehow managed to slip your tongue into it and now you're muted for good. you liked her curves but failed to decipher the curves in her attitude. so on and so forth.
gone. good days gone. now only the reality. either bear with it and move along with her baggage or take a different path, be a sole traveler and remain happy ever afterwards. hahaha..
so, my friend. it's all good. it's how you look at it, that matters!
i hope you understand my lil untimely wannabe-funny side in what i just said. my best wishes are with you.