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And I was here in
Then she started apologizing, lamenting for all the mistakes
she had made. She told me what she did was a mistake not a sin so I should be
able to forgive her. I told her its not that hard to forgive but its really
hard to forget. If I don’t forget I wont be able to forgive. She took every
means possible to convince me. I was slowly drawing towards here once again
because of the lonliness we guys normally feel abroad. Then we started chatting
regulary. Shw would say that shw would wait for me in the msn and I was there.
I was chatting to her till 5 in the morning and she wanted to chat more. And
one day when we both turned out webcam on she started crying looking at me.
Even my heart melted. But still I kept myself aware and made her clear nothing
like before can ever happen before her and me. But I was sinking again and I knew
that but could not help me ( what a moron I am). Then she said that there was
nothing left in her life except for her mother and was talking depressing
things and even revealed her tendencies of suicide. I was afraid because I knew
what was going in her life from before. So I tried to keep her happy anyway
possible. And on her birthday I sent her gift as well as called hero and talked
to her about an hour. She seemed really happy and I was satisfied to make her
smile. Things went on and I asked why was not she married. She told me she was
waiting for someone ( indicated in sign it was me). Then there was my birthday.
She called me , wished me and said sorry for not being able to send a gift
freom
Then now its been more than two months since we last chatted and now she is gone, She does not come online, does not respond to my sms, doesnot reply my emails and does not even pick up her phone. And I am confused. If she got married in this time I am happy for her ( at least she could have told me). I am also afraid that if she has done something foolish to hurt herself. And my last fear , had I been used and manipulated as before to have my heart shattered by her yet one more time? I know for all the things she has done to me I hate her. I hate her a lot. But I love her a lot more than I hate her. She taught me how to love, how to care and how to suffer. No matter what happenes, where I go whatever I do , she will always be in my heart as my first love and in my mind as my worst nightmare. I am just waiting for her response so that I could get along with my life knowing what has happened in her life. I am still waiting for this pain to be over…………
Hope she responds so that I will know everything is allright