Posted by: Sampada May 11, 2008
Shame on being a Nepali !
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Sometimes I fell like women has no control of her life, this may not make much sense to most of us who are from cities but for the village. Their life before marriage is not usually plesent because of various social norms and after marriage is totally on "trail and error".

Parents are always focused on getting a nice guy and getting her married. She is only taught to be nice to everyone and do household work.Usually she is so much restricted from doing everything that she lacks power to think what is good for her and right decision. She is emotional and doesn't want to hurt her parents, so does everything she is supposed to fit into the "model of good daughter". she is less educated or doesn't have life supporting back up plan for any kind of disaster in her life.

When her life goes smooth  after marriage thats good, she is most probably lucky whether she may be happy or not. If it doesn't that is a disaster. Imagine how long it will take her even to realize that she has been abused, and after that disclosing to others about that fact. She is scared because she wants to maintain the relation as much as she can, at the mean time knows she has no money to support herself and probaly if her child for basic needs.

I don't know if you guys agree with me or not but with and exception it's no dout her husband who is to be blamed for this mean act, and  also her parents too who did not equiped her will enough life survival kits. I am not taking about the above case, but in general  as I don't know anything about the above incident in detail.

Some can can quickly get on with their life but still the road is tough for most of them. She is just a victim.....

I hope the girl will get the justice but can imagine how her life will be after this all incident is over.....

Sampada

 

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