well why dont you meet and hangout ..talk about stuff before marriage bro...........I mean do you really know her and does she really know you??? I mean it wouldnt hurt talking to her and getteing to know eachother a little better..  You see its not like old days now.....couples were stuck with eachother wether like it or not. But now a days its more modern and divorce is like a joke. So I think you should talk to her, meet her for tea ,coffee, or just a walk in the park .........try to understand her and tell her about you too.  Remember you are both going to spend the rest of your lives together. SO tell her to be honest about anything that can hurt relations in the future....and you should tell her about yours....FRANKNESS NOW will save your marriage down the road...............NOW you dont want to know something bad about her in three yrs into the marriage by some stranger.??? and vise versa........BUT GOODLUCK BRO.....Im married...It was Love at first sight....7 yrs now and stil feels fresh and warm like the day we first met. Hope yours will be the same......FOREVER.