hyde,
adding to that note, there was this guy who wanted to add me and i didn't know a bit about him or any of his friends. i found out later that he wanted to get 'close' to my network -- to a friend of mine in particular hahaha...i am just wondering now, could it be you? .

btw, don't rely on the list and here's why: i used to have some 300+ contacts few years back--deleted more than half of them later on and now i have a manageable bunch who i know really well :P coz i realized i was not bothered about if more than half of them were twittering for the sake of twittering, if their a$$ (hahaha) was in amsterdam or some north pole (LOL)... if their wive(s) gave birth to a baba or a baby HAHAHA....which basically means, i was just exposing  my growing wrinkles () to them strangers whom i have no connection with whatsoever hahaha...so, i think, even if you hit on some sexy chick from your gf's list, chances are, you'll still be fine!!!--long as they're just casual acquaintance to each other.  don't get too excited ni pheri. Play safe :D :D

MAVEEEEEEEE,
looks like you know my inside out. :P ...but no, i ain't into any form of gammies. life's beautiful in so many other ways...haha....but i partly agree with you there...i did find some lost friends who i wonder if i could have found without fb. tara, there are not many out there. i don't think people having more than 150 contacts are even in touch with all of them once a month for the reason i just mentioned. :D