yes, i called it a moral dilemma....you know..i have been living single and dont have a "nepali gf" yet. I am not having much fun with her because of her hubby's calls during sex, and coz im not having fun, she is also not getting full satisfaction. I dont wanna lose a free and secure relation that has been quenching both of our thirst without any big hassels. I dont wanna go to clubs again to hunt girls there,,its very hard and lot of exercise. my dilemma is,,,do i suppose to tell her not to talk in the phone while having sex or not?.....what if she starts seeking relation with me to replace her husband, that i dont want to be. do you guys understand what im trying to say....?  im afraid like what if she stops talking to her husband and wants me to replace him?? I dont want that in any case.