Dear Miss Sajha 2007;

Hajur, its very common to hear energetic girl and ramrii like you attract to a man that exemplifying  stable looks, steady life,prime life,"purusha"/husbandary himself  esteem  manners that makes  or seems to yourself feels alright or safe to be friend/love for. Enumerated to all the sense mention ~ all that glittery and accountable matters that which compatible to you or him vice versa -  is for my say is subordinate essence of love and the inspire towards the relationship is temporal....

The prospect of you going share/against  with Her own husband love, being good friend to you too , and as supporting relative to Her as you mention that you was invited to their home is definitely dragged you to a daunting feelings as forth to hinder/and love  Him at total is a big dilemma to your athma, but then  to be able yourself to perform your duty as expected to your confidance principle, it is the law and karma which is law is still a Law cause and effect expounded that the married status is a divine and phalic symbol in their relationship.Ignorance of this stigma knots rerecklessly will depicted suffering in further life even it is potray compassioning to you.

Invoking the so called sharing basis terms, as well to fullfill the insist on/carry on the  relationship that eventually lead  the unllying principle of true love may be the becoming of  realization knots/that  expect for- may last  as unbind love.......to once calling ,up to you...( prognastication for one`s man champion upon your destine love shall begin from  out of many this kind periphery love heroes ....)