ho ta! Lemme enlighten you further more hai ta.
Actuality is - keta haru sabai sulta sochne/ bolne/ dekhne etc etc hunchhan. but from girls perspective it'd would be totally upside down, because mother nature has made them that way. The upside down they see are not 'upside down' in reality, but girls insist to be so. Guys on the other hand, never want to put it on the girls, and have been agreeing to the girls just to comfort them. This has been happening from parapurba kaal, and bichara guys have to agree.
But, you are totally right to see it the way you see. After all you are a girl too ni!! I am sure you are enlightened enough for today!!! We will continue this spirituality talk some other time hai ta!!! JPT he he he