I do agree with Pareen though. if you have lived independently for years and suddenly you are married and living with your in laws, you do feel odd. I am not very close with my own parents and when my in laws start making rules around house, it becomes inbearable. it is easy to give advice but imagine when they decide what to eat or what you should cook, etc, it tend to get in your nerves. this i say wtih all respect because they are not big issues like hating them or something, but it just feels so tight.

The worst is when you have a baby and your in laws decide how the baby should be raised. Imagine, they saying the baby need to live in 80 degrees all the time. I know they say it with love but another aspect is also they do not want to change or be educated or want to know your OPINION. That sucks big time.