pareen  i can understand  why you hate your in-laws.......because only girl can understand girls problem.....when we get married we have lots of expectation from husband and his family.....like we expect them to speak with us nicely .....treat us like their own daughter.......but its never happen .....but they always want them to treat as our own parent.....love and respect  them as our own parent..... they can never understand  that  to get anyone love and respect we have to love them and respect them as well....it cannot be done forcefully.....when you force anyone to love and respect without giving them then it will change into  hate........
 so girls....if you want to happy ....you have to be independent ,carrier oriented ,think positively,and dont expect to much from other....keep yourself busy.dont let your mind become cluttered with worry coz it leaves less room for the good stuff....and remember....if you take a step by faith to do the right thing ,then god will do the rest ,the things you cant do.