Pareen,

Try to think from different angle..........and you will notice that your thought might be odd too........Look at your statement, "and the husband talking about loving his family makes me more sick"..........looks like you don't think your husband's family as your own family and therefore referring as- his family. looks like problem is in your thought and you have created a wall between your "maiti- my family" and "ghar-his family". The problem lies here.............and that's why probably women do not like their inlaws.