Hmmm....

1. you are illiterate about SLR (I would say DSLR to be precise, but who cares) camera

2. you are an amateur

3. you don't have steady hand

Brother, I think you are better off with point-and-shoot camera.  I am not being facitious.  Why spend lots of money on DSLR when your needs will probably be met by a regular compact camera? 

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