Bob Marley: I agree 100 percent with what you said. "My answer is :it's our Values. Our values is injected with false pride, lies ,selfishness and mispriorities. No wonder we do not see the need for patriotism in Nepal."

There is nothing wrong with seeking weakness in us as Nepali. Once we know our weakness, we can try to improve on it. It is like getting customer feedback. The only way you can get feedback is asking customers for their opinion.

To know how (we) Nepali are, the best way is to ask other side. We should ask Indians, Bhutanese, Tibetans, Westerners, and others about their opinion. If we start asking what went wrong and what are the good qualities to keep, I am sure we can find the asnwer.  If you want to improve yourself, you have to understand your opposition and then compare and see where improvement needs to be made.

Just a thought..................