interesting elaboration to the discussion by rato and samsara. i feel that both you guys have some points and if i may lemme try to find a middle ground between your respective views.

we know, with the development of communication, world has shrunk to a smaller place. be it love or arranged marriage, i think its very imperative for people to expand their visibility and become accessible to as large as possible network of people so as to give them better/easier ways of finding the right person or the prospective ones.

in older days, and still evident in our societies, mediators used to initiate and proceed talks between the two parties. arranged marriage is hardly possible if there is no medium in-between for interconnection. medium is an absolute must for communication. things have changed in recent times and internet has grown and has undoubtedly become a good medium for interactions. agree, virtual world can be deceiving and one should be aware of any kind of surprise/shock/deceit or other adverse implications that may come with it. but nonetheless, there is no denying that it does help bringing people together. so potentially yes, sajha can also help you find your mr./ms. right...we just don't know the the probability of success/failure or pleasant surprise and deceit.

and no one is loser here. some people are shy/loners by nature so they would, if possible, try to avoid parties and public places. doesn't mean they are any less attractive--physically or otherwise.