Bhaley, I believe that sajha or any other discussion forums out there represent the worst resource in finding a soul mate.  I'd rather go with social networking sites instead if not the bar/club/parties or even the house parties where friends often try and fix their other friends up with those who SWIMs (Single Independent Weatlhy Men).  Coming into discussion forums to solicit a mate is unorthodox and for peeps with no friends or no life.  No wonder I bash peeps like rajkpandey and his likes every time their thread comes about.  Also, why start this thread on a Saturday night (instead of using more traditional and proven techniques: meeting people in real life)??  This is insane.  Lastly, no matter where, on the discussion forums, social netowrking sites or the bars, all we men look for is sex.  This is the honest truth and any man who denies this is lying through his teeth.

All in all, no SWIG for you but natali1, you surely are SINBAD (Single Income No Boyfriend Absolutely Desperate).  LMFAO