I would not rule out sajha or other internet resources as a prospective grounds to find a mate. Everyone has different tastes and aptitudes. Some may prefer to go out and look for a mate. Some may seek arranged marriage. Having to look online for a mate or seeking arrange marriage does not necessarily mean someone is butt ugly. Natali may be a perfectly beautiful girl who does not want to go out and meet guys at a club. Most guys at clubs go there to get laid, and not to look for a bride. Most of the times girls can guide a guy to their preferences. Let's say meet at a night club and play the right cards in subsequent meetings to get him interested in more than just sex and maybe get married later. Although it's not a bad idea, it can be pretty tiring process. Having to filter out many guys and looking out can be pretty time consuming. For a guy, it can be a pretty appealing alternative ie. get to sleep with few girls to find with whom they have better sex. For girls who are not into having one night stands and sleeping with many guys to find the right one, internet might be a better alternative.

One can find out if the other person has similar tastes. Respect, intelligence, sense of humor etc from online interactions, and then take it to the next step. Unlike clubbing or going out where sexuality is important first and the rest follows.

Media has a lot of hand in creating excessive expectation regarding ones partner. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship or a perfect marriage. A perfect marriage is a union where the partners have reached a perfect compromise.

Good luck!