Hyperthread, so you'd prefer trying to solicit a mate here instead of going out and looking for yourself?  Watching too much of that Blind Date show on UPN9??  C'mon, blind dates and internet soliciting are for losers.  I'd go on a blind date only if it was such for the other party (hell, I'd have to see the pic of whom I'm gonna serenade fo' sho).  Lets be honest, no matter how ugly a guy maybe, there is no way in hell that he'd want to mess with a girl as ugle as he is (unless she's super rich).  There, I've pretty much summed up what we guys are after.  And please, if you are a guy save yourself the argument over this as you just need to come outta the closet ASAP.