Shaadi ka laddu aisa
jo na khaye woh lalachaye
jo khaye woh pachhtaye ...

but for those who are hell bent on committing this harakiri, let me tell you, if you go looking for a Mr.Right (or Ms Right), chances are you will never find the one who has all the features you are looking for. So, just let the time take its course and you may come across someone whose feelings for you may "click" with your feelings for him.

OR, if you can't wait. Go to your parents and let them pick a "yogya purush" for you.

Amen.