I do not have any grudge for DV wala haru sanga...   and not being judgemental... 

This DV guy came... and i would say he came in a wrong place thinking that he would be helped. But, because of age difference, there was always tensions among the guys with regard to this new DV guy. He was a show after he gets drunk.. well everybody has some pitfalls.. Guys should have ignored those things. But, He became the Talk of the Town person in a sense, people started pulling his leg for every little incident and his every little ignorance (common guys, what you expect from someone who just arrived here from nepal few days ago and who has never traveled any other countries but india). I kind of ignored him in a sense that it was none of my business kind of thing. Bhanincha ni.. hagne lai bhanda dekhne lai laaj.. it was too much later. I called this guy when i was by myself..   we talk and talk.. and came to realize that this man was in so much pain..  Sometimes we do mistakes when we do not try to build bridges between people and build walls instead. Lets not elongate the story.. he is one fine fellow.. even though he failed few classes in schools... and he works his ass off to make money.. Who cares about those things?? he is a fantastic guy..  and has good grades in the journey of life school. Now, he is a guy i think of the first whenever i am in trouble.

Another incident happened when i was introduced to this another DV bro in one nepali party. You know the very first question he asked me was " Tapai ka kaam garnu huncha?" i replied . Another questions " Tapai student hoina ra? Tesari kaam garna paicha? Illegal hoina ra?" (not a good question to ask in first meetings.. ali ghanistata bhaye pachi tesari ekant ma soddhha ta nobody would have been offended ni hoina ra?)... This time i could not believe my ears for few seconds.. ... Then replied... "dai, sabai tapai jasto bhagyamani hunnan ni..  marne bachne isthiti aye pachi legal/illegal le kei farak pardaina.. Malai ta sodhnu bho dai.. tara aru lai yo question nasodhnu hola.." and then  i realized probably this man had not found any job then.. and might be thinking that all illegal workers (like F1 nepali students) occupied the jobs .. thats the reason he was not able to find a job and contrary to it, all illegal students had jobs. ... More funny thing, He had asked exactly the same question to few more people before he finally asked it to me. ... thats what my other friends told me...   

I just try to enjoy the things out of it... santan thari thari ka hunchan ni bro...  sabai lai autai taraju ma rakhna mildaina...  But, its good to give hints about things that are not considered acceptable...   so that they wont repeat it. Imagine, they come here high.. and when reality is different,, they will be in denial state...  hard to accept the fact that there are no money yielding money plants here ..  Uni haru le pani dherai kura sikeka hunnan jo hamile sikyau yaha aayera...  hami pani nepal mai bhako bhaye sayad ti kura haru kaile ni sikne thiyenau hola..  

One last one, this DV bro came here with 42K dollars. hahahaha..  but thats personal business how much money he brought from nepal. You dont talk about those things when you meet somebody for the first time. That pissed most of us.. generally students know where there are jobs available and those kind of things because of their connections with others.. its a kind of network. So, everybody was like.. ok nepal ko hune khane raicha...  amrika bujhe pachi buddhi aucha..  . No body helped him finding the job.. not even ride... (not saying that he was not capable of finding the jobs but our friends circle kind of ignored it). We met him after 2 months i guess. he was a one frustrated man by that time... he even broke out completely and cried. Lets not continue the story, main point is that if they do so... its not going to harm us.. its going to harm them in long run.

lets not be judgmental. sometimes they just piss everybody off.. and we also do the same things to them. So the story continues....