You cannot judge anyone on thier pakhe pan. I knew a couple who came from a village in Nepal. They hadn't seen the world, but i think knew all the ways of survival. Here we were trying to get an on campus job going thru all the rules and regulations, and there he was inviting all the big ppl of the univercity to his small apt and without any exams he got a job for himself. The wife too joined the community church and began learning english and she had made so many friends who all helped out in their survival.

Now they are living a very good life compared to us "who believe are more educated than them, or much advanced than them". Initially we use to laugh at their pakhe pan too, but now... i think we are more pakhe than anyone else :)

Its just that we get so jealous at other's success that anything they say or do hits us right on our hearts.Maybe if we got DV's too people would be thinking we are showing off...