i nepaliji,

I don't want to didrespect our own Nepali people working elsewhere. we are all the same.

What I differ in my opinion with others is let us not relive the falsehood that was created to excite us in doing something what perhaps others did not like to take in their hands.

The other point is that the Lahure culture only hurls us into this endless cycle of Lahureism and makes us see things that this Lahure culture is the only thing great and attractive in the country and for our people.I have seen many talented boys and girls from  lahure families who end up in being yet another lahure or Lahre's wife. If they had adopted  the right way of thinking, they could have been far way up and better off as persons in their career path. If money is the only yardstick of success, many of these British , Brunei and Singapore lahure's famillis are able to live respectable middle class life envied by many lower class people in Nepal. We have been enjoying in feasting, barbecues,partying , drinking , ornamentation and buying jewellries and ghar and Gharedis and children in different sors of addictions lying in this slumber for eternity. Of course, there will be a few very good and decent people in our community ,too. But they are really few and far between within this overriding culture. We have not woken up from this self created cocoon slumber of so called luxury. This inhibits us to move up . Because of this we are not prepared to face the harsh and bitter reality of life. We have made ourselves like this. No bahun, Newar  or thakuri can impose any thing as such on us. Why should we fear to criticise ourselves if we are not doing justice to our potentials?

Let us not stuff the tender brains of our coming generation bhanja and bhanjis with our myopic thinking that the only success for the bahnji  is to have a lahure as her husband and the boy o be a Lahure in British army. Yes, this is an attractive job for a Nepali boy but will be them same for his coming seven generations.Let us inculcate values in our children that are univarsally cherished as worth having and let us not disseminate falshood to make ourselves feel comfortable . Because, we can not always hear good things about ourselves when we are not making attempt to be a real good. Even if our ancestors were Gorkhali Bahadurs as claimed by some fellow bloggers above, that has no meaning at the present context because our present and future being insignificant due to certain unalterable dynamics and historic ramifiations. I can not dance in this tune of self eulogising greatness when there is nothing as such visible around me.

And for those hurling abuse on me, please come up with logics. You are free to call me Bahun, dhoti, tapare or you can imagine. It gives me a nice feeling that I have so many perona inside the single me.

Abusive words on others may provide you a short term saisfaction, but does not prove anything at all. अनि भन्छन् नि गाली त कमजोड र विक्षिप्तहरूको हतियार हो । मान्छेसंग तर्क सकिन्छ अनि ऊ गालीको सहारा  लिन्छ , तसर्थ मलाई गाली गरेर आनन्द लिन चाहनेहरूलाई म त्यो छूट दिन चाहन्छु । आउनुस् मेरो कुराको आलोचना गर्न नसकेमा चाहेजति अपशव्द खर्च गरेर गाली गर्दै सन्तुष्टिको जुस सेवन गर्नुहोला है त !!!!!

This is all. I have no interest to post any further in this thread.