sumedhu, please go on, I am on all ear.

Sajha being a public forum, everyone should be allowed to his or her view, regardless of it validity so long as it does not get out of hand and ends up too personal.

Guys and gals, if you think you like to be respected then learn to respect. In the real world, there will come a time when people will say things which you don't like to hear and you have a choice to react to it. The way you respond to it tells a lot about your peronality.

Sumedhu, though I don't subscribe to your opinion, I am more than happy to hear you out as you come across to me as a very rational and respected figure. It does take a lot of courage to go against the whole lot people, doesn't it ?

And those of you, especially the new ones, who does not know my background, I am Singapore bhanja and my paternal grnadfather faught the Japanese in world War II and my maternal grandfather faught the Indoneisan and commnist in the 60s. Currently, my father is still serving in Singapore together with my brother in law and also my own brother is currently in the British army.



Regards,
Rai