C'mon fellas.  This Seandai dude has been a member here for a while and surely, he has responded to peeps' queires here in sajha in the past (and he may have made a few friends in return) whose help he is seeking now.  I see nothing wrong in asking for help here.  We have peeps asking others to escort their relatives back to Nepal, we have college kids asking us for help with their exams, we see numerours VIN # queries, peeps searching for long lost friends and every other query under the sun (including guys like rajkpandey and his likes looking for wives here (Damn!!)).  This is sajha (like the name connotes: an OPEN forum).  Anything goes here.  In my viewpoint, if you can't help, why even bother posting?