I understand your willingness to love and forgive some one and I think thats a virtue many people do not possess. I have not watched Deepak in TV, and I cannot say what his intentions were, but I dont think we should ignore something... The fact that he was indeed there to see the 13 year old, with flowers. I admit that in some very remote places of Nepal, young girls are married off, but I do not think that he belonged from one of those remote places. Even if he did, after coming to USA, he should be aware of the US laws (and should have had the moral to not go after a 13 year old girl). In my personal opinion, I think that having sexual intensions or LOVE (that you procalimed he had) for a 13 year old child is WRONG! period! Saying that, I also dont think that we should all ridicule a man because of one mistake. I have to admit that he was not thinking and acted stupidly but everyone deserves one more chance. But if he still has some sort of sexual fantasies about 13 year olds after today, he should be put to jail for life, or better --castrated! (sorry for the strong language use!)