hey us, You've been in this country for ten years. i'm sure you are able to make up your mind on this situation all by your self. if you think you will be happier finding someone on your own then do it... you're living in the us you have the right to decide whats best for you...your parents arent the ones who have to spend the rest of thier lives with the guy. I'm not saying you should'nt respect your parents but the thing is its about YOUR future and you should be the one to make that choice... Good Luck