thnk yyu loote for ur suggestion and thapap for ur view . I have learnt alot .. in these many years= so many days, so may hours or alot of minutes and countless second and mili seconds. Every person learns for any kind of thing he/she does in one way or the other way. I am learning and will keep on learning and this process never ends and that's what I am going to share with people out there .. who knows they might have some problems like mine and aren't able to express themselves coz they don't have that courage in them...or may be due to any kind of reason isn't able to say what has actually happened in their life... thanks loots and thapap for ur positive comments... appreciated alot -rocks