Chamkebaaj, This might sound rude to you but dude, Why do you blame other? Dont you think everyone is unique in their own way? If they dont want to share their feeling with other nepalese around them is that their problems or yours? May be people around them(nepalese) are not worth sharing stuff. And as we all know how nepalese communities are here in the USA. All they talk about is How much do you make? What car's do you drive? Where did you buy the house and other chitchats and so forth(This is based on my experiece not applied to all communities). Is it really necessary for him/her being nepalese that they stick to their own nepalese people? Some people wont even hang out with other nepalese and have friends of other race or origin does it mean that they are "D*ck suckers"(in your own very words). I dont think so! This is from my experience, I hate fags who think that as a nepalese you have to stick to your own group of people. I have always had black and white friends. Dont know any nepalese whatsoever over here. The only nepalese i know are backhome. Came accross some of them over here few years ago but i could belive how they felt, thought and had attitude towards each othe as nepaleser. I'd rather be happy with the friends that i have dosent matter they are white, black or chinese or even mexicans... as longs as there is friendship it dosent matter. CHEERS!