LifeIsBeautiful100 ji, I do not know about others, but for me... I would have gladly held the conversation with Ram Hari Subedi ji if he had started this thread on his own website. He came up on Sajha at 06-20-07 11:03 PM, and started the post.... So it was sensible for us to have conversation with him here on Sajha. Had he started the post on his "third most popular" nepali website, we would have gladly held the conversation with him there. Just clearing up your confusion. Oh and yeah, I agree with you on the issues like "khutta tanne", "the intention was to defame a certain person" etc. And ofcourse, after reading your post, "we can see the nepali mentality once again of other people following the remarks without even trying to understand what is going on." I agree on that too. And a suggestion for you..... Just scroll up, read and understand everything.... before coming out with your "smart" comments. got anything for me? Visit:- http://www.sajha.com/sajha/html/openThread.cfm?forum=2&ThreadID=47573 Thank you.