Parbatya.... I have not gone through all details of Bhatte..just skimmed it.. well someday you will find a better person in life...a much more better...,come automatically and regarding so called memories, that you are talking about... well; at that time, may be you even won't like to remember (in depth,) them at all (in depth because it depends upon how u r hurt..was it betrayal or obligation or sth else)....... (just remember my words ...when that day comes, then you will say what Sangfroid told you many years back was really true....just keep this in mind)