Some suggestions: 1) Talk to your guy. Communication is important. You should tell him how you feel about it and he should explain his behavior/ respect your feeling. 2) But you should give your guy some freedom. Visiting porn sites might be a problem, but chatting and talking with other people is not big of a deal (unless it means he is really boared with you). 3) As long he loves you and is faithful, some compromise is worthwhile. 4) But if he repeatedly disrespects and hurts you, leave him. I know its difficult, but being in a disrespectful relationship is more painful and an absolute waste of life. Things will get complicated if you wait longer. Dr. Killerspin.