help! how do i get him out of my life. it sucks. i really love him. n it's not easy to undo that love.... can i ever find a decent guy in my lifetime?? or is it just me? why does he go to those websites...chat with those unknown ppl n...call them? n hide everything frm me? just don't know...what should be my next step... can't even talk to frens...all my fresns know him well, like him. hell we have all common frens. n they really think we'd get married soon. don't wan't to pour my heart to them. -confused, sad n lonely