RatoBhaley: I agree with you on one point...and I regret that more than anything else.....talking in Nepali in front of American collegues...be it at work or grocery store...or at a public park. But what I wanted to say is, if you keep justifying these actions, won't that bring in more fractions rather than try to fix what is already broken......I think we should avoid speaking Nepali infront of Americans as it is disrespecting them, so is a Newar speaking in Newari infront of other non-newari speaking friends.....