It is a good article, and thanx for sharing it here. But lot of things that's mentioned there depends alot in individuals, like about in-laws inquiries, wife's doubts and shopping lists. Not all are like that, and it's hard to generalize in that way. If the things are happening as it mentioned, then the husband is also partially responsible as he still wanted to show his pride and fulfill his egos, and they've not known each other much.