kc jyu, if you can't take humor in good spirit, then i my posts are not for you. secondly, don't tend to be a hypocrite. you're not strong. MEN ARE NOT ALWAYS STRONG. they cry, they do cry in front of their gf/wives/friends. i have. and i don't have hesitations admitting it. if you haven't yet, then you haven't seen enough of this world. i had my friend (physicall a hunk) crying like a baby when his gf was deathly sick. btw, thanks for the invitation :-)