LOL bikash, bud i agree. my first post can give an impression of an insult, if you don't ponder and think rationally about it. :P to me, a gf/wife can take a role of a mother. she can take care of you, pamper or make you feel like you're her baby when you're down or feeling low, no? that is what a woman is capable of doing to her man and that's why they are great! i shouldn't be saying this to you since you too have a gf. i thought you would understand. :P secondly, i would be the last person in this world to make fun of mothers. not even last, i would rather die before that :P coming back to your question, i don't know what are you going to achieve by posing this question here in sajha. let's say a fair number of people here say: it doesn't look good to have a gf taller than a bf. then, will you leave her? can you? so what's the point? :D...don't feel insecure or ashamed. that's not a sign of a healthy relationship. at the risk of being judgmental, your coming here and asking this question itself implies that you're already insecure and unstable about this relationship. BE A MAN, it's not about physical height, it's about the mental rigidity (confidence) which seems to have been shaken and it shouldn't be! :P all the best! LooTe PS and hyde and me have been around sajha for long. if you don't understand me, you won't understand him either :D