been there, done that!!! So, srijana maiya don't make assumptions about me now. In any case, it was dumb of you to wait for a guy who has lived in USA for half a decade or so. People face changing environment and they have to adjust with that to survive. Go and read Darwin's theory!!! You really need that for now! And for selfish nature, hey don't you think you are selfish out here? You are crying for someone who is not interested in you. So, basically you are trying to make him feel guilty-selfish girl!!! If you had got him, you would have been happy, right? But, how about his happiness? It is clear, he isn't happy with you and still you wanted to drag him on to marriage. So, who is selfish out here? Both!!! At the end, everyone cares about his/her own happiness. So, stop giving a bull**** about sacrifice out here.